you. Don’t silently hate her, or silently forbear. It is such a dirty trick, so mean and ungenerous. If you feel a burning rage, turn on her and give it to her, and never repent. It’ll probably hurt you much more than it hurts her. But never repent for your real hot rages, whether they’re “justifiable” or not. If you care one sweet straw for the woman, and if she makes you that you can’t bear any more, give it to her, and if your heart weeps tears of blood afterwards, tell her you’re thankful she’s got it for once, and you wish she had it worse.

The same with wives and their husbands. If a woman’s husband gets on her nerves, she should fly at him. If she thinks him too sweet and smarmy with other people, she should let him have it to his nose, straight out.